Tuesday, August 30, 2011

New Delhi-Taj excursion Part 1

At 3am we pulled out of the Rising Star Gates for our two hour drive to the Chennai Airport.  Many months ago I signed Quincy and I up to go on this excursion with the other volunteers to see New and Old Delhi and also travel up to Agra to see the Taj Majal.  It will take two blogs to cover this much anticipated trip.

Getting to the airport turned out to be very eventful.  Since we left at such an early time with very little sleep, all of the passengers were drifting off to sleep, including myself.  I was seated in the row behind the driver towards the center in our van.  In front of me was the driver's gear shift that was bolted to the floor.  I was jerked out of my sleep suddenly when the van slammed to a halt.  I found myself instantly thrown to the floor like a rag doll.  I landed on my knees, looked up startled with my heart pounding and what came into view was a car that was a couple of inches in front of  us.  Thank heavens we didn't rear end it. I stiffly got up from the floor with sore knees and reached down to rub my leg suddenly realizing I had captured a handful of blood from my calf.  I got out wet wipes and hand sanitizer and doctored it up in the dark van.  When we arrived at the airport and I could see it in the light, I had two long cuts slashed across the front of my calf.  It looked like I had been clawed by some type on animal.  Apparently, the bolt anchoring the gear shift on the van floor had cut into my leg.  It isn't pretty and the scar will have a story to go with it.  India traffic makes me shake my head.

Annie and Quincy-It is going to be a crazy ride!







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Carl, my rickshaw buddy-It was a wild ride.




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A hard day's work in flip flops.  
Once we arrived in New Delhi there was a tour bus waiting to take us on a day filled full of site seeing.  Our first stop was to take a rickshaw ride to a reknown spice market in downtown Delhi.  The rickshaw is a three wheeled bike with a carriage that transports not only people but all kinds of different cargo. It is man powered and I was amazed at the load this man was undertaking in transporting Carl and I.  We were seated behind this man of about 40, 120 lbs. maybe, with thin, spindly legs in flip flops. Wow. 

 I know I have said this before but the traffic in India is chaotic like nothing I have ever witnessed.  London is a close second, but this takes first place in pure craziness without abandon.  It is an extreme game of King of the Road in every sense.  All rules are made to be broken, if there are any.  The rickshaw is at the bottom of the pecking order due to size and being aggressive is the only way a driver can get to where they are going.  The bigger the vehicle, the more clout they have on the roadway....unless you have a gutsy, aggressive rickshaw driver that is willing to take risks to fight for his space on the roadway.  We had one of those and I found myself holding my breath once in a while as I gawked, held on tight and took pictures of unusual sites and happenings.  It was a rainy, wet ride in the middle of rush hour.  It was an unforgettable forty minute round trip. 


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There were lots of picture opportunities.  I loved this one.
We were dropped off at the entrance of the spice market.  India is known for its wide array of spices in their food.  The curries are colorful and full of flavor and the aromas are abundant.  When you walk through this market, your senses are bombarded with aromatic scents of every spice and pepper imaginable. This is so overpowering it makes some people sneeze.  The rich colors and displays are raw and tantalizing.  This market is a couple stories tall and it is accessable by a narrow, winding stairwell that has people bustling up and down it with various cargo balanced on their heads and in their arms.  After we viewed the market and took lots of pictures we were led into a spice store where we were schooled on the various spices and how they are produced.  It was quite interesting and I came away with some raw cinnamon and a packet of korma curry.  India is not only colorful but it is rich in flavor. 


After that we toured a Jaine Temple that was located down an alley.  Before entering we had to read a list of rules.  One of them was that a woman couldn't be in menses if entering.  Strange.  Shoeless and leaving cameras behind, we all walked through and viewed the ornate carvings and designs inside and at the end of our short tour we got a hard sell for donations.  I didn't like that.

Our rickshaw driver was their waiting.  We boarded and rode through the narrow, alley wayed textile district full of colorful saris, accessories and an endless view of beautiful materials waiting to be sewn.  We safely arrived at our bus and paid him the agreed 200 rupees that was pre-arranged by the tour guides....which is about 5 or 6 bucks.  At that time I still didn't have a handle on the exchange and still, to this day, feel guilty I didn't pay him more. That is such hard work for so little. 


We ate lunch at a tasty, Indian restaurant and got some authentic northern Indian food.  It tasted more like what I have eaten at home.  It was nice to eat the type of food I like.  You can never go wrong ordering korma chicken accompanied with rice and  naan bread.   Naan was a big hit for some of the volunteers.  Some even ordered some to go for a snack later. With full bellies we all left for our next stop. 


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The Taj Mahal in the works.
We went to a rug manufacturer and got to view good quality rugs being hand knotted on looms.  It was a neat process to watch and have explained to us.  One loom had two men working on the same rug in sync.  Another loom had an elderly man making a rug of the Taj Mahal on it.  The owner said he contracts 750 different families that do this from their homes.  He pays them by the footage monthly and his inventory and designs change constantly.  I came away with a beautiful area rug and also a small elephant one to hang on my wall with shipping included in on the price.  That will be a nice surprise to arrive to when my trip is over.

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My big purchase



Shortly after that we boarded the bus for a six hour journey to Agra where our hotel was located and where we would get to see the Taj Mahal the next day.

The hotel....The Radison....hot shower with a waterfall rainshower head...luxury....soft, comfy beds......impeccable customer service (Hotel service in India is like nothing I have ever seen.  The friendly staff is at your beck and call.  The Marriot in Chennai is the same.).....heaven.  Although this felt frivolous after the past two weeks of bunk beds, bucket showers and squatters, I completely enjoyed this.  You can't take the city completely out of a city girl.

 It was a wonderful, full day. I have to say, with Quincy and Annie sharing the room, we didn't lack for conversation.  They both can make me laugh but also can partake in some thought provoking subjects.  I have enjoyed growing closer to my daughter but also getting to know Annie.  By coming to India I have met some great people I otherwise would never have come into contact with and Annie is one of them. We talked until we drifted off into a good night's sleep.  The next morning we would come to experience one of the Seven Wonders of the World.  

Monday, August 22, 2011

Bargains, Beach and Spirituality

Our first weekend at Rising Star allowed us to have a little site seeing time. On Saturday we all loaded up and drove to the bustling town of Mamallapuram. It is a coastal town and for most of the time I called it the “beach town” until I figured out how to correctly pronounce the name. 

 The driver parked the van near some temple ruins that we could walk through and explore. I didn’t get to fully enjoy this as our white skin drew the attention of every beggar and trinket seller that existed. It was my first time being fully exposed to this and my age was definitely a target. They new I would have a little more money than our young college kids and I’m sure they could sniff out the weak one. I desperately wanted them to leave me alone so I could take time to enjoy these sites and take pictures of my daughter. Finally, after a little frustration, I bought a couple of overpriced treasures due to my lack of expertise in the bartering game. It was baptism by fire into the land of bartering and I definitely failed on my first attempt. I didn’t improve much on it either. Quincy loved the game and became good at it as the opportunities were always available on various excursions. That is the way of shopping in India. As for the ruins, I still don’t know why they exist or what they are about. I may have to go online, beggar free, and find out.

 







Quincy made her first purchase-two chudadars (Indian shirts)


Carl and the Coca Cola Girls

After the ruins we walked through the downtown. There is stores that will make you Indian clothes within the space of an hour. There was a store that a few of the volunteers had leather sandals made within a couple of hours for pick up. Many of the stores sold jewelry, purses, food, scarves, various kitschy items that had been handmade in India .The price of everything is negotiable and it is expected that you barter. Sometimes they will drop their prices just to get the game started and entice you to buy more. Quincy was excited to find a drink stand that was selling Diet Coke. She had been experiencing a slight withdrawal and happily fed her addiction with many to accompany her. My only regret was that on that day we were lacking in rupees and we didn’t realize how much better the prices were there in comparison to New Delhi.

The people watching was fun and jaw dropping at times. At one point Quincy spotted and old naked man walking down the street as confident as can be. She said she has never witnessed so much male privates until she has entered this country. Many of the men here think that their world is a toilet and have no trouble relieving themselves wherever. Indecent exposure rules only seem to apply to the women in this country. One of those things that you shake your head and say Tii (This is India).
During the afternoon we got to witness a ceremonial parade that took place down the main road that led to the temple ruins. People were adorned in bright orange and yellow show stopping outfits with fancy bowls on their heads. Periodically they would pause and do a ceremonial dance. It was a site to take in. India is definitely a Technicolor event for eyes.

When we were done shopping we were driven to a fancy beach resort. This is a resort only for the wealthy Indian people and western travelers. We paid admission to use their well-kept beach line and go swimming. On the beach we ordered food that was delivered to us as we sat under the shade of a cabana with borrowed blue and white striped towels and beach chairs. It was so relaxing and I felt rescued from the humidity for the time we were there. No matter where I am in the world the ocean has always had a therapeutic and calming effect on my mood and spirit.

On the way home we stopped at a roadside open air restaurant to have perrahta for the first time. This is India’s version of a truck stop restaurant. It has a roof with fans installed with two walls open and chairs and tables set up. We loved it and enjoyed the unhealthiness of the carbs being laid before us. I talked a little about this in my food blog. We revisited this place one more time after a medical rotation. The driver would call ahead and have them make sure that they spruced up the sanitary conditions for us coming in. I didn’t realize that until our second visit. This was a welcome end to a fun filled day.

 The next day we loaded up two vans full of church members and some that are investigating from Rising Star for the long journey of two hours to Chennai to attend our LDS service. Many of our volunteers were clad in their newly purchased saris. The rest of us wore ornate chudadars with pants. Some just wore modest western clothes. It is so comforting to attend church and know that the same lesson is being taught in the U.S. You always can count on it feeling like an extended family sharing a common faith. Wherever you are in the world you can guarantee that it will be conducted in the same manner that you are familiar with in your home country. In india all the meetings were spoken in English with a heavy accent. The spirit was felt throughout the meetings. Many shared their testimonies on various topics with conviction and passion.

 The church in Chennai is presently held on a top floor of a building. They are patiently awaiting the completion of a brand new building. It is much larger than our Stake Center in America. It almost is like a miniature temple. The success of conversions is very high in India. They have been baptizing five people weekly on the average. At that rate they will be filling the pews of that new church in no time. It is nice to know that we are a worldwide church and people from all walks of life, leading very good lives already, are able to enrich it more by having the comfort, support and truth of the gospel. Having faith in God is a blessing daily. He is there not only during good times or in times of need but in those moments when one questions why we are here on earth and what are purpose is. By understanding the Plan of Salvation, life just makes more sense. By being worthy to have the Holy Ghost present with me at all times, he helps me to make good decisions for myself and my family. I cherish my faith and hold the gospel very close.








As Sunday came to a close, I realized how much I enjoy experiencing different cultures and how easy it is to adapt to new places. This week I had acclimated to the climate, dealt with mosquitoes, heat exhaustion and adjusted to a surrounding so polar opposite to what I am used to. What will week two have to offer?

























Project Septic Tanks = Completed




It is Monday…..five days before we leave from Rising Star. Our Scorpion group’s task is to complete the septic tank project. This project has been ongoing throughout several months. When we got on site we found out that we had to fill in dirt for two septic tanks. Today was very humid and hot. Water is essential and taking breaks to get it is important.

 

Filling in dirt is hard work on a colony. We lack proper tools to make this easier. A wheelbarrow would be helpful. A decent shovel would be nice. Instead we have homemade bowls, two shovels that are the equivalent of a large gardening shovel. One of the shovels has a crack on the wooden base already. We will wear this one out for sure.

The first location had a large mound of dirt and a huge hole to fill in. The dirt was a challenge but the Indians were in the way too. One of the men wanted to cement the inside of the septic while we were doing the dirt. This wouldn’t be a problem if it weren’t for the fact that he would get a little miffed when we would get a little dirt on his hair. We also were maneuvering around saried women bringing cement or water on bowls on their heads. There always is extra people that feel the need to visit with the man in the septic hole oblivious to being in the way. It all worked out and we got it filled in.

The next location was a home with the outhouse in the backyard along with a couple of cows. We were glad they weren’t in the front as where they are there is manure. The outhouse had a pipe running under a fence made of branches to the front yard, where the septic is located.

Filling this one in was a challenge. It was a large hole, the dirt was located in various locations and we were feeling the heat. Both shovels broke, so a lot of it we were pushing it in with our feet and using the bowls. We were able to salvage the shovel for a short while. Kim, our volunteer coordinator, has been doing this five days a week for months. She works so hard and today was her breaking point. While shoving dirt in her knee buckled and she fell to the ground in intense pain. She has had knee surgery on one or both of these knees. I was a little worried she had damaged it again. As she lay on the dirt I helped her up and hugged her. What happened is she broke down and just started sobbing. It felt as if she just needed to let it all go. She had worked so hard day in and day out, her body was spent, she had gave her all. She just needed a hug and some reassurance of a job well done. She needed a mom to console her, praise her, allow her to cry and tell her to rest. This is where my age is an asset. I was glad that I was here when she needed that support and I always will feel a little closer to Kim because of this moment. She also needed to know that our team would make up the difference and take the weight off. As hard as it was for her to sit on the porch and let us work, she still managed to help lift us up with her humor and gift of motivating others to do hard things.

At the tail end, when our team really needed it, Joel joined us from medical and helped us finish. It was nice to have a fresh pair of hands to help us complete this job. We worked together as a team relaying dirt over the fragile branch fence to cover up the septic pipe to the outhouse. Victor, the Indian guy in charge of this project, pitched in and helped as well. As I dumped that final bowl of dirt, I had a feeling of relief and could say it was a job well done. Victor’s smile said it all. He appreciated our laborious efforts.

One thing I have learned through this experience is that I can do hard things. At first the job may not be appealing, but by having a positive attitude and seeing the greater good of what is being done, it is powerful. I fed off of the motivation of others and that feeling of accomplishment through teamwork.




I have gained a great deal of respect for the volunteer coordinators and for my team mates. We all maintained a positive attitude and put our whole selves into each task. The coordinators have been powerful in their leadership skills by allowing us to capture their enthuisiasm and passion for what we are achieving on the colonies and on campus with the children. I am the oldest volunteer this session. These are all young people below thirty. I have faith that our world is daily becoming a better place with young adults that are here purely for the reason to give of themselves.

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Indian Food-A Love/Hate Relationship

The food in India has been, let’s see, interesting. If you are a person that can take hot and spicy food, this is the cuisine of choice. If you are a person that likes to eat the same food every night, Rising Star food is for you.

An hour after dinner on my first night at Rising Star I threw up due to heat exhaustion. After that, red rice and I had a horrible relationship. Unfortunately, that is the main dish practically each night at Rising Star. It is healthier and unshelled rice that is a little heartier than brown rice. Sometimes yellow, vegetable rice is served. It has a soy based meat product they put in it in place of chicken. You have to watch for the little black things they put in it or your mouth will be on fire in 0 to 60 seconds.Also served is a watery, yellow curry that has cut vegetables in it. It usually has a kick to it and resembles chicken soup. You put it on top of the rice. Sometimes they had this off- white curry that was goopy, and again, spicy. 

Side dishes were a hit or miss… usually the latter. I liked when we had sliced green beans. It had spices in it that gave it a gourmet twist. There was also a dish that is made from the banana tree that resembles a yellow green bean if it was chopped up. It was not a favorite for me or Quincy. Unusual tasting beets were served sometimes.  Some people liked these, but I have never been a lover of beets.  Another side dish was these pureed beans that were extremely spicy.  They tricked me as they looked like they were refried beans.  Sometimes the spicy food would make my lips and the inside of my mouth feel numb and tingly as if I had just had my mouth worked on by the dentist.  As you can see I'm a wimp when it comes to spicy food.  Many of our volunteers loved this food.

About once a week they have chicken. It is little bony chicken pieces with, again, spice added to the coating. Sometimes they had fish that had bones in it with a coating and the skin. It was always a nice surprise to scoop up some curry and find a fish head giving you a smile.

We also, every day, sliced up a variety of vegetables and fruit. This was a life saver because on the less than desirable fish nights or ultra-spicy evenings, we would fill up on these somewhat American tasting options. As you can probably tell, we are India food’s number one fans!!
I was disappointed that we missed the mango season as I was itching for a fresh mango plucked off of a tree just outside my window. Those and coconut trees are all over the Rising Star campus.  We did get to eat pineapple often and we got to have pomegranate fruit daily.

 Chupati night is always on Friday. This is bread that has a pita consistency. Everyone likes that bread when it is offered. Occasionally they serve tipuli, a rice circle patty bread. I wasn’t a fan of it. It tasted like perfume.

 Eating with the kids when I was on the education rotation was a treat. We all met in the open air dining hall. White rice is always served with three different curries and another side dish. They serve this one milky, watery, white one that was not too tasty. The kids like to put it on their rice and drink the left overs. Everyone would sit with their families in a circle. Each kid has her own tin plate with his own name on it. No silverware is used. The fine-tuned technique of eating with your hands is displayed. I tried it once and was not too successful. The curry was too hot on my hands and I had it on my face and everywhere else. The girls schooled me on this with smirks on their faces.

Being secluded from normality in ingestion and digestion, I often craved chocolate or something a little salty. That is something you don’t get there unless you bring it or buy it in one of the villages. Village snacks are much different than what we were used to, so even that was not much of a break. They have chocolate hard biscuits.  In the villages there isn't the funds for refrigeration for soft chocolate and extras like that.  It just gets too melted. Although, they sold packaged ice cream in old freezers that tasted exactly like what we have in America, we definitely took advantage of that option.  That would happen once in a while as we were coming home from the leprosy colonies.

 Every night, the group ate dinner on the roof of the hostel using banana leaves as plates under a colorful canopy held up with bamboo poles. We would each stand up and share a high and low for the day. We would have an inspirational thought that someone would share and go over any announcements. It was always nice to gather together at the end of the day.

Some of our highs consisted of something precious that one of the children said, an especially rewarding experience in one of the colonies, or discovering another reason why we have fallen in love with India.

 Some of the lows were usually reactions to the heat, or to the large masses of mosquitoes, or being incredibly tired.

Chef Chanelle, one of the volunteers, saved us many of the nights when we could not bring ourselves to eat red rice one more evening by making us french toast, sometimes even at 10:30 pm.  I love that girl!

Chanelle enjoying some paratha.

 
Sometimes when we came home from a weekend excursion we would stop at this little road side place that served Perattha. It is bread that is a cross between a tortilla and a croissant. They serve it with a light green dipping sauce and a mini omelet with onions in it on the side. It was only 10 rupees for each item you order. We usually had three Paratha and one omelet, which meant we spent less than a dollar for a whole meal! Oh how we love the exchange rate in India.


When we went to Northern India on our Taj Majal excursion the tour guides took us to a nice Northern India restaurant. I was excited to see Korma chicken on the menu. It is a yellow mild curry. When I had it I was very pleased to know that the Indian restaurant, Ghandi’s, near my house tasted just the same. All of the volunteers filled up on the naan bread. It is dry bread that looks grilled on the outside.

Quincy and I shared a chocolate chip sundae at Pizza Hut.
 Because of our constant craving for food that did not burn our taste buds off, we experienced Pizza Hut, India style. It is a sit-down restaurant and always full of customers. Many of the pizza options would not be found in America because they cater to the Indian palate. Quincy couldn’t find Canadian bacon and pineapple on the menu. A lot of cheese bread and pizza were ordered that night. Ice Cream cones were ordered at McDonald’s. I had a diet coke there from the soda fountain; they don’t have ice offered in any drinks in India. I wouldn’t have had it anyways because the water is questionable for Americans to ingest. I received the wonderful gift of traveler’s diarrhea that night. I swear it was either from the soda fountain pop or just eating more than I had that past two weeks. Thank heavens for the travel nurse’s recommendation to get a prescription for that.


 Luckily, we didn’t go to India for the food because we would have been devastatingly disappointed. The people are what make us want to go back… but not the ones that cook.






Thursday, August 18, 2011

Family Time with the Tamilarasi House

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This little one in our house is name Tamilarasi too,
 coincidentally. Doesn't she have a dynamite smile?


Quincy and I are assigned to the Tamilarasi house. The houses are named after the house mother of that particular set of girls.



 

The hostel has many houses. A house consists of a main gathering room and two large bedrooms and a small room for the house mom to sleep in. It has cement floors. The girls are split up between the two large rooms. Those rooms also have laundry hanging to dry in them daily. 
They have a cabinet that stores their blankets, folded uniforms and play clothes. It also has shelves where the girls can store their personal belongings, like their backpacks. The building itself is two stories high and has a large communal bathroom and showers on each floor. There is a separate boys building nearby.



The girls all have shared chores to get the laundry done, help do hair, organize snack and keep the place tidy. The older kids get the weight of the chores.



At bedtime they sleep on the hard floor on a mat or blanket with a pillow. At first I was taken aback when I saw this but most of these kids sleep this way in their own homes. As a matter of fact, the conditions are cleaner for many of them as some of their own homes sometimes have dirt floors and the toilet is an outhouse squatter.



Daily we have family time. The girls look forward to Quincy and me arriving from 7:30-9 every night. Usually they are working on homework. We have helped them study for tests, do math and we were no help when it came to homework taught in Tamil.  Sometimes we brought books in and we read them to each other. We had wonderful conversations about one another’s lives. Many of them are fascinated by where we come from as we feel the same about them.





Check out my pipe cleaner headband that was made for me.
Thursday nights are what they look forward to. That is designated talent night. The volunteers are in charge of planning something for their house to do. I was really worried about this when we were asked ahead of time to plan this.  I guess I was worried about not boring the older kids or doing something that has been overdone. All this worry was so unnecessary. I’ll tell you why. These kids old and young are so grateful for anything. It amazes me and makes me feel sad that I don’t see this more in the states. One evening a girl brought out some treasured pipe cleaners and we were forming them into headbands, bracelets and flowers. I don’t remember the last time I have seen older kids be entertained by these.



  The first Thursday we brought in these foam picture frames with all kinds of foam stickers and letters. I had them put their names on it and decorate them. The house mother got their pictures to put in them and they hung them high up on the walls in their bedrooms. Not one sticker went to waste. They scavenged the leftovers and they all were so proud of their creation. I was disappointed I didn’t have my camera with me on this activity.

 

The next week we made edible bracelets. This was a big hit!  The girls loved this and we had many photo opportunities. I had some sugary thin ropes that they strung Fruit Loops on. The finishing touch was a gummy, peach apple ring to be threaded on as the big jewel. The children don’t get much sugar, so they were savoring every bit of it. One story I heard later from a volunteer in another house was that one of my girls took an extra peach ring I gave her into one of the other houses and split it eight ways so those girls could try it. That touched me. I witness this generosity all of the time with these kids.



This is our favorite girls after getting their bindis on and some are still
eating their tootsie pops!  Each one of them are so unique in their own
special way.  I am blessed to know these young women.

The third week I had brought Tootsie Pops. They all picked a color and we played the right and left game as I read them a story about a Mother Kangaroo trying to make her baby Roo smile. They had to pass their sucker to the right on the word smile and left on the word Roo. I told them that we picked this book because of all of the smiles they have shared with us and how much they have made us smile. After that, we talked about how special each one of them is on the inside and because of that it radiates outwardly. I read them The Ugly Duckling and we talked about how they need to always stand up for each other and be the best sisters they can to one another. We talked about looking for the inward beauty in others rather than judging only on the outward package. After that we had them say something they think is special about themselves on my video camera and then Quincy put a bindi between each of their eyes signifying the beauty shining outwardly. It was a special night. In both our hearts we knew that our dreaded last day was rapidly approaching and our precious time with our newfound family was coming to an end.



Family time has been a bonding time. We have had some special moments. Every evening we have tucked these girls in, hugged them and gave a kiss when needed. They have showered us with love and embraced us. Every night I would tell them something that my Scottish grandma used to say. Good night, Sleep tight, Don’t let the bugs bite. Sweet Dreams. By the second night they were saying it too. Sweet Dreams, Tamilarasi house. You all deserve them and hopefully you will follow your dreams as you continue to grow into wonderful women. I love each one of you girls and will miss our time together. 

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Dental is a Luxury




Getting a dental checkup is a luxury for many people in India. Recently the children at Rising Star had a teeth screening and many were referred for additional dental care due to having a cavity or needing a tooth pulled. The children were very excited and appreciative of this. Most of them, until they came to live at Rising Star, had never seen a dentist. This is because they are from a leprosy affected family or they do not have the money. 

Scorpion team with our brave dental patients
On our medical rotation we took the children that were being referred to the dentist to get their teeth worked on. Each volunteer was assigned to a child to escort them through the process and show moral support.



  


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Vino
I was assigned to Vinodhini. She is in the house of girls Quincy and I share. We know each other pretty well. Everyone calls her Vino, the “I” is pronounced like a long e. She was having a cavity filled and she was one brave cookie.




This is dirt around the dental chair...ugh.
One thing about India that is very different from the U.S. is that the cleanliness and privacy standards are quite a bit lower. There were about 20 different dental chairs in a huge room. It wasn’t like how when we go to the dentist and you get your own little private cubicle to have your teeth worked on. The floors were not clean and the equipment is just rinsed off in between patients. Sterilizing is a hit and miss deal. Although the floor isn’t clean, they make you take your shoes off before you go in that room to walk on their dirty floor. Sometimes things like that seem so conflicted in this country.



This young girl was so tough. Before she got her tooth filled they put the swab in her mouth to make it go a little bit numb. In the U.S. we would have that done prior to getting a shot. In India they bypass the shot and the patient just bears the pain. I could tell it was uncomfortable as her feet were curling up and her eyes were watering, but she toughed it out and got the work done.

 I was glad I was there to comfort her. At times like this is when I am sure these kids miss their parents. I hope that I was a comfort to her. I have to say this was another one of those thankful moments I had for being able to go to a dentist that I absolutely love ( that’s you, Rose HoldrenJ) and having the luxury of going whenever necessary. Sometimes the little things I take for granted are so huge for people here.